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When it comes to bedroom performance, the size doesn’t matter


How can I increase the length of my manhood? How will I date a woman with this size? How can I reduce this size when women are running from me? These are some of the burning questions depriving men of their sleep.

As the old adage goes, one man’s meat is another man’s poison. When a colleague is contemplating about the minuscule organ another one is concerned about gigantic one.

The online platform has been awash with questions on whether size matters in subject regarding healthy sexy life.

We realized that men are the major concerned stakeholders concerning the hot topic.

In this context, women are not so much concerned who has what and from their side, true love, emotional support, sense of humor and manliness compensates for any given size.

Let’s first understand the average length of an erect or flaccid penis.

According to Mayo Clinic, the average penis measures somewhere between 3 and 5 inches (about 8 to 13 centimeters) when not erect, and between 5 and 7 inches (13 to 18 centimeters) when erect. A penis is considered abnormally small only if it measures less than 3 inches (about 8 centimeters) when erect, a condition called micropenis.

An internet survey conducted by the FDA in 2009 found that one-third of supplements that claimed to improve sexual function contained undisclosed prescription drug ingredients or similar substances, a potentially serious health hazard.

Researchers, on the hand, had to intervene to settle the matter of size and come up with rather interesting statistics. The result reveals that 84 percent of women have no issue with their couple’s penis.

However, on both extreme ends, stories are narrated how marriages scrambled over bigger and smaller size – causing discomfort and inefficiency in love making by married couples.

A woman from Taiwan sought a divorce from her newlywed man after discovering the man had a small penis, and couldn’t satisfy her.

“I think there isn’t a guy in the world who hasn’t wished his penis were an inch or two longer,” says Michael O’Leary, MD, professor of Urologic Surgery at Harvard Medical School and a urologist at Brigham and Women’s Hospital in Boston.

In Nigeria, a woman filed a divorce suit after her second marriage became a nightmare. The man she married to had huge manhood which caused her painful lovemaking moments.

What is the concern of having a bigger penis?

Being at the receiving end, many women couldn’t buy the idea of having intercourse with a man carrying extra large or too small below the belt.

“Yes, size matters. When it is big, it hurts and when it is small it doesn’t satisfy; therefore I go medium size penis” says a woman, who prefer anonymity.

“There are men out there who are blessed a with huge manhood, unfortunately, they don’t know how to use well”, adds another.

Men, on the hand, believe, it all depends on how tight a given pussy could be.

“If the woman’s asset is wider, a bigger penis will do better and for the opposite, it will likely float inside. Women should be fair to us by considering real-life issues rather than belittling our hard work”. One man couldn’t take the betrayal from women anymore.

“For smaller penis, a tight pussy is comfortable”, adds another.

Some women cannot imagine engaging in small-size men since bigger size comes with advanced pleasure.

One woman agrees with bigger size equals better performance.

“When it is bigger, it creates friction and this will increase the sweetness. The bigger the penis is, the sweeter it is”, she laments.

For better and effective intercourse, penetration is not the major consideration to be put in place. One woman believes entering the sweet region is never true for all interactions.

“It is not must for the man to penetrate during sexual intercourse. A woman can get satisfied without any penetration, thus, size in this case may not be an issue.”

What is important if not the size?

Women attribute a high level of skills and techniques to improve intimacy rather than marginalizing men based on their endowment. Foreplay is ranked number one in the lovemaking process deputized by styles depending on personal preference.

“Skills matters most when engaging in intercourse. This is the point where many men with huge manhood makes a blunder. With massive size, within few seconds it may be out”, expresses another woman.

The length of erection and application of variant techniques and sex positions gratifies women more than anything else. Neglecting the minimum impact of size, the buck stops at the captain; boasting of stamina, self-confidence and strength to overcome a whole set of intimacy challenges.

A woman will always not judge a man based on what is in between his legs but pretty on personality and long term partnership relied on true love and affection.

At some point in time, women look upon  less endowed men on the basis of extra ‘activity’ to compensate for the size.

“Interestingly, men with small-sized penis work harder to give pleasure to their women than their counterparts with huge manhood”, articulates another one.

Whatever the case, women reveal that putting more effort on the size is inconsequential in the lovemaking process. A person with bigger heart is a gem of  a person so do relationship survive.


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